Our own insecurities and weaknesses often lead us to be jealous of others. Jesus wants us to know the great dignity that we have in being sons and daughters of God our Father. Ask the Holy Spirit to show you where you have been harboring jealousy against others. Acknowledge your sin to the Lord and ask Him to replace this with a revelation of how precious you are to him.

Fear, jealousy, gossip and unhealthy relating were listed as some of the obstacles to reconciling with others. What do you think are your major obstacles to reconciliation?

Think about a time when you had a disagreement with someone and after you talked you became closer to this person. If you would like to, share this with your fellowship group.

Discuss the difference between harmony and conformity. Why is this such an important distinction?

Which of the scripture verses listed in the outline above has the Lord been using to speak to you about reconciling relationships? What has he taught you through them?

Practice empathic listening. Did you find it helped you understand the other person's perspective better? Did you find the problem discussion and solution tools helpful?